Through out our lives we all are looking for what would be the work that makes us happy doing it? I’ve seen and heard from so many people who are lost and confused in finding the respond to the question! “What is my life’s work?”

Well, I can’t speak for others, but I can share with you my own life experiences and all the spaces I went through. That might be helpful for you and possible direction to follow.

The very first thing is to see and find out what really turns you on! Like a fire in your passion, like a waterfall in your soul and like a bird in your hearth. You have to find out WHO YOU ARE first! Everyone is looking for what they want to do for rest of their lives without knowing who they are what make them who they are today and what is the thing that makes their soul sing!

The main element that’s holding you back from hearing the song in your soul is your own internal dialog. I call it “Chatter”! Your chatter about yourself and about life itself holds you back from seeing, experiencing and owning your own power. You talk to yourself and you put yourself down! How you may ask! By saying to yourself: I can’t do this, or I am not smart enough, or they would not like me and any other nonsense you can come up with! By now you either hear that voice in your head or not! If not, just get quite for 10 seconds and listen to the voice that judges and evaluates what I am saying! Here you are! That is the voice and your chatter!
If you are able to make that voice be quite for awhile then we can go on to second phase.

This phase is the phase of truth! You need to tell the truth about what you really want to do in life. We all hide that and passion and interest, mostly because we think it is stupid or insignificant and people might judge us! I have news for you! They judge and evaluate you anyway! 24 hours a day! You do the same thing, don’t you? So get over it and go on.

So by now, you stop listening to your belittling and condescending voice in your head and start expressing what you have passion for. The next phase is to invent and create a vision for your life worth living! Write down all of your life values. Such as fun, love, happiness, security, family, health and so on… After that looking and using those values come up with two or three sentences that would capture the essence of who you are and what your life is about! Before you do that you need to close your eyes and think about 5o years later! Yes, if you fulfill this vision and live through it for another 50 years, how would your life look like then? Standing 50 years out, what would you see? What would your friends and family say about you 20 years from now? How your life would turn out? These questions will assist you in finding out your life vision.
Your vision is not about you, but includes you! It is not about doing something, it’s about completing life! Is not about working hard and making money! It is about living life and being fully self-expressed. It is a space that others can find themselves being a part of and getting pulled towards.

I am sharing my own life vision with you to first of all inspire and show you it is possible, and, second to give you some directions:
My vision for my life: “Life fulfilled. Passion, joy and laughter expressed. Inspired by people’s success, having fun and creating abundance.”

Next phase is to create action plans and structure to fulfill that vision! You might say “OH MY GOD!” yes, you are right! Now you have to be responsible and accountable to live that vision and to do that you need to STOP COMPLAINING! And you need to be good to YOU…! Then you can latterly do anything and being happy with it. I certainly hope you find something that adds to your zest of life! By fulfilling your vision you are fulfilling your soul and your needs in life. Physically, financially, socially and in every other aspect that you can imagine.

Try it on. It may not be easy because you have to let go of your complaints about yourself and your life. For some that will be hard! I know! When you do the outcome is amazing and is worth the effort! Good luck. Be well.