In July of 1998, my husband and I got married in a beautiful wedding with our friends and family there to celebrate with us. My husband and I were running his business and had just moved into a beautiful 4 bedroom home 1 block from my 6th grade daughter's school. By most people's standards, we were doing quite well. Yet, a year and a half later, we both felt overwhelmed and ill-equipped to have a successful marriage. We were frequently upset with each other and arguing more often than not about finances, raising my daughter, our relationship at home and at the office, social and family relationships, etc. We knew we needed to do something and agreed to get some help together. We chose Primeco Consulting.

Our coach was a neutral party who created an environment in which my husband and I were able to communicate effectively with each other. We were really able to hear what the other needed to say without being defensive, hurt or dis-empowered. After a few hours, we were able to both be responsible for the damage our words and actions had caused and renew our commitment to our marriage as partners, present to our love for each other. As a team we created how we wanted our marriage, our family, to be.

This summer we celebrated our 3rd anniversary and the birth of our beautiful baby girl, Cassidy. We still have finances and other things to deal with, but because of Primeco Consulting, we now have the tools to communicate with each other and deal with our life as a married couple and a family, powerfully.

Michelle Spencer
858-231-2950